• Awakening the Village: Becoming Gaian


    If you long to become evermore ALIVE and ON PURPOSE

    as an inherent part

    of this extraordinary Planetary Organism

    ~ GAIA ~

    Let's GO

    I use distinctions, tools, maps and processes

    from Possibility Management (among other sources)

    in my Regenerative/Gaian Culture-Building research and work because these empower Radical Responsibility.


    Radical Honesty: the Game of Life Starts Over

    Get honest about what gets in the way of Connection, Presence and Power in Reality.

    with RH Trainer, Michael Alan Kolb

    info/registration here.

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    For Mothers Whose Children are 16+

    A radically new and empowering attitude about Mothering is possible.

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    An Archiarchy Research Center is growing

    on the West Coast of Canada: The ARC


    I am calling Possibility Managers from far and wide to come build this Archiarchy Research Center, empowering each other and local Edgeworkers

    to deepen into Radically Responsible Creative Collaboration.

    Questions? Reach out.

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    Available online, globally, and in person in Western Canada

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    Conscious Feelings Work and Possibility Coaching

    Discouraged? Overwhelmed? Stuck? Silent?

    Recieve tools and coaching to become

    Ever More Alive


    Emotional Healing Processes use emotions to heal energetic, mental and emotional wounds.


    Possibility Coaching is empowerment for your path of transformation and purpose.


    140 - 160$Can/€ for a 90 min personal session.


    450 - 570$Can/€ for a 4 week series; one call weekly


    Book in for

    a 30 min call to meet me or regrou about your next steps or for a full session here.



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    Mother Graduation

    Wondering what the heck you'll do after your kids are grown?


    Discover Your New Job From Gaia


    I created a Mother Graduation for myself in March of 2022 after 30 years of Mothering.


    It changed everything. In a few years I will create for myself a PhD Mother Graduation.


    YOU BET.


    I want to empower other Mothers to create Graduations for themselves. If not you, who?


    Begin by booking a 30 minute call with me any time, even if your Mother Graduation might be years away.


    I want to hear all about you.



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    Jack In and Shine

    with Money Club

    Committed to figuring out the On Purpose and Money flowing in Part?


    Have a Team.

    Jack in to your Purpose.

    Money becomes a side effect.


    To join the Money Club Experimenters Telegram Group, book in for a 30 minute check-in with Nicole.


    Be empowered to create a Money Club of your own.


    In the context of Modern Culture, Single* Motherhood is impossible.

    If you are a Single Mother, you are invited to join

    the Single Mothers Universe-ITI Community Group on Telegram

    Coaching for Single* Mothers


    *Distinction: in Modern Culture, all mothers are practically Single.

    Possibility Coaching empowers Single Mothers to become Villagers and grow Village.

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    I want to be on

    your team.


    My work with low-income Mothers is empowered by Patrons

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    monthly $

    (you decide)

    receive reports from my Gaian Culture Building adventures.

  • Research Groups

    Are you doing research on the Edge in any of these Territories? Book a 30 minute call with me about being added to any of these Telegram Teams:

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    3-3-3 Crossroad

    Conscious Feelings become more accessible and discernamble through experiments such as 3-3-3. Consciously turn up one of the Four Feelings Anger, Fear, Sadness, Joy - for 3 minutes, 3 times a week, for 3 months. In the 333 Zoom-In Crossroads Telegram Group, you will encounter dozens of 3-3-3 Experimenters with whom to practice, and with whom to share the gold from your research.

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    Dismantling Resentment

    One of the first Possibility Management websites I used intensively was the Resentment website. Dismantling resentments that I had been holding for decades changed what was possible for me in precious relational spaces. If you want to focus on Dismantling Resentment, you will find teammates to do this work here.

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    PM Canada

    Are you using and studying Possibility Management from a location in Canada? Whether you are based in Canada for a breif or lengthly time, here you will encounter others using PM who are in Canada or who come to Canada frequently.


    If you want to know more about anything I offer or write to me for any reason or no reason, use the button below. I want to hear you.

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    Divyám'shu Konrad,

    Devalaya Community,

    Yogi, father, Naturopath,



    Nicole lived with me in our small community in Devalaya, Southern Germany for July 2021. I am still sad that she had to leave.


    Her Emotional Healing Processes and Possibility Coaching are priceless. She has full access to the tools of Possibility Management and her intensive life-experience as a mother helps her create even in difficult situations. Her integrity and reliability are remarkable.


    I hope she will return here. If You have any questions, contact me.



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    Dor Sharabi

    Possibility Pirate and Coach



    Nicole didn't ask me to write this.

    Nicole navigated yet another healing process for me 2 days ago.

    This is not your typical modern culture psycho treatment or some tribal shamanic thing. This is a next-culture healing process. I recommend finding out for yourself what this means.

    Sometimes I think I know what the "problem" is that has me stuck, frozen, despaired, but it takes a skillful trainer like Nicole to open doors and hold space, so I can get clarity on what is it about, and heal it.

    Thank you, Nicole

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    Christine Ploschenz

    Dancer, Teacher, Possibility Coach



    To work with Nicole is to fly into Archiarchy. More becomes possible from the ordinary. For me Nicole is the queen of noticing, present with love and clarity. As a graduted mother I see and appreciate her wisdom of motherhood and it is ecstasy to learn and thrive with her.

    Natu Ojinika Mbanefo

    Glass Artist and Next Culture Facilitator


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    Birgid Rüger



    For me Money Club worked because of your strength, clarity and love. There was high awareness from you. You kept the space clean. I sensed no Gremlin had a chance to hook you. You gave big important challenges. Wow, it was my chance to take the challenge and fulfill the challenge. Your explanation of the distinction between needing and wanting changed my life. I have been digging and digging through what I was conditioned to want and finally I come to what I really want. Thank you for that. I thank you for your work, everything you are doing, I have high respect for you as a Magician.

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    Kris Kelly-Frere

    Architect and Systemic Designer



    Nicole is a brave collaborator and nurturing community builder.


    I’ve had the privilege of working with her on a range of projects including many months with Calgary on Purpose, as speakers at TEDxCalgary: Engage, and in an immersive learning session for the Systemic Design Exchange in Edmonton.


    When Nicole is in a room conversations get braver, the thinking gets deeper, and every voice is valued. She is an intuitive experience designer and a skilled facilitator.


    It’s a privilege to watch Nicole sharply challenge the status quo in tough conversations.


    I can’t wait to work together with her again.

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    Bastian Fenske

    SerVivo Community,

    Conscious Movement Facilitator, father, Portugal


    Nicole brought radical clarity to our community SerVivo.


    Old patterns had crept into our community, well-hidden from our eyes. There was some hidden resentment. Here and there I had given up.


    Nicole masterfully created spaces to go deeper. She has a quality that I've never yet seen before to this extent: a crystal-clear spaceholder who can navigate all the waves in the space and to be vulnerable and visible as human being with feelings. She does not hide behind the authority of her role. She goes first. With an open heart. And she creates real connections. On the same level as everyone else.


    Nicole has my trust as a guide into and through the darkest corners of my underworld. The distinctions from Possibility Management that she offers are life-changing. If you want your community and your self to go further towards what you bring into the world with teamwork, clarity and love, then I highly recommend Nicole as coach and spaceholder. 

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    from Dara, in Germany, about Emotional Healing Processes:


    You held space for me, where I could move from my wish and desire for true, intimate and authentic relationships towards becoming the source of that.


    Not waiting anymore until the "right" people come into my life or until I find myself in that spaces but to become that space of radical intimacy.





    from Emma, in Canada, a Patron on Patreon:


    If I had the chance to hang with Nicole once a month, and chat and buy her a meal - I would love to do it. And so I do, mentally anyway, by being a patron of hers on Patreon.

    I get to see what she is up to out in the world: facing life and making waves.



    From an edgeworker in Berlin:

    I can't believe how deep I went (in an Emotional Healing Process), how much I processed with you holding space. Wow! I had no idea I had that in me. Now I am lighter, bigger, sleeping better, relating better with everyone around me. So much more is possible that did not seem possible at all before. I CAN HEAL! Thank you!



    From a NZ edge worker:

    What you are up to is astonishing to me. You bring so much wisdom from your lived experiences, as a mother, as a person who has been experimenting on the edge for so long and in so many ways, falling down and getting back up, over and over and over. How you can be so loving is beyond me, and a real testament to what you must have done, inner work, to extract yourself from victim stories. I've never met anyone like you. You are a magical force of nature.

  • Videos, Interviews and Articles

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    I write articles and post them on Medium.

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    I create videos and post them on YouTube.


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    The Magic Cow Bridge-House

    Sept - Dec 2023

    For 3 months in upstate New York, the Magic Cow Bridge-House was my home. In this Next Culture incubator, with Daway Chou-Ren, Meredith Witt, Devin Gleeson, and Eithne Leahy and special visitors, Magic indeed happened. The legends continue to be articulated.

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    The California Washing Machine and

    Lighting the Edge: May to July 2023

    and an amazing project in between

    Vera Franco and Devin Gleeson held space for an Expand the Box and Possibility Lab in the California Nevadas.

    Daway Chou-Ren originated a Next Culture gathering called Lighting the Edge; I was on the team.

    Woven around these, I lived and worked at Wanosh Forest Garden and Healing Grounds.

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    The Possibility Coaching Bridge-House

    First ever!

    For 3 months, in the village of Bavorov, Czechia, the first Possibility Coaching Bridge-House existed. I had the honour to be part of the team with the originator, Christine Durschner, and Martin Salanda and Gabriela Fagundes. We hosted clients and Possibilitators for intensive Healing and Creation weeks. Visit the Treasure Library created during this project.

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    Culture Caravan, Everything Edible in Sooke, BC, Canada

    and the Mama's Village

    May, June and into July this magical series of constellations converged, diverged and re-converged in ever new versions. With children, in a food forest by river and sea, extraordinary humans-in-process of initiation and discovery collaborated and evolved.

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    Federhof, Germany

    Gaian Possibilities for Families

    Federhof is growing from a family home and farm into a home, event space and farm for families.

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    The Devalaya Bridge-House, Germany

    Building a Bridge to Next Culture

    Bridge-Houses are places where people live and discover how to create more Bridge-Houses. I feel joy to have been part of the early growth here in the summer of 2021.

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    SerVivo, Portugal

    In service to SerVivo

    Gabriel Millinger and I brought possibilities to this remarkable dance community. We held over 18 spaces in two weeks catalysing radical honesty, healing, clarity, discovery and transformation.

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    Spring of 2021: The Washing Machine

    Six Transformational Trainings in Six Weeks

    1. Expand the Box with Scott East in Calgary, Canada

    2. Expand the Box with Sophia Magdalena Hofmann, in Ericeira, Portugal

    3, 4 & 5. Expand the Box, Possibility Village Lab, & Intimacy Journeyer Lab

    with Clinton Callahan and Anne-Chloe Destremau in Mafra, Portugal

    6. Possibilitator Training Gathering with Vera Franco in Mafra, Portugal (pictured)

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    Awakening House Temporary Permaculture Ashram (2015-2020)


    After much dreaming and discussion, I set up Awakening House in the fall of 2015 in Calgary, AB, Canada as a microcosmic experiment of The Village.


    Residents and visitors tasted and tested intentional living possibilities up until the project ended with a beautiful Death Ritual in the spring of 2020.

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    Awakening Caffe

    Seeding the Village

    Every Sunday evening for two years, I held space for talks, workshops, forums, speakers, celebrations, swaps, and more. Much magic happened in the cozy after-hours at Francesco's Caffe in Killarney, Calgary. I drew village around myself and experimented with many facets of Village-Making.

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    Awakening the Village

    Answering the Call

    Fertilized by Awakening Caffe, expansion started to happen into other spaces with other spaceholders, and Awakening the Village was born.


    photo by Phi Vernon, Third Eye Arts

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    Vibe Pod Bottom Liner and Mentor

    From 2015, I have been part of the two annual gatherings of ArcaTribe: Intention (5 days) and Symmetree (3 days), and the revival of EnVision, our organizers retreat.


    As Vibe Pod bottom liner I applied spaceholding technology to support the emotional well-being of all involved, during and between gatherings.

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    It takes a microVillage to build a microHouse

    It was an honour to be invited as a village weaver onto the building team that won 4 out of 5 categories with this hempcrete and timber beauty, "The 109," at the first ever International Grow Calgary MicroHouse Building Competition.


    The team included some of western Canada's most notable natural building pioneers: Dion Lefebvre, Christina Goodvin, Dori Lav, Melody Mossing, Brian Lavoie, Chad Gendall, Olivia Johnson, and Hemp experts Carl Martel, Erin Lindley, and Bonnie Mackay. Great Fun was had by all.

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    More for Men

    Men are the first casualties of patriarchy

    My love for the men in my life, and my work with Alison Armstrong empowered this two year project holding space for men to heal and create initiation for themselves.

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    The Tent City Symposiums at the Kinney Earthship (2015, 2016)

    near Vulcan, AB, Canada

    Time spent at the Kinship, Alberta's first Earthship Biotechture-built Earthship inspired me to undertake an experimental gift economy project with the remarkable poet, Ian Kinney.


    Glorious workshops, demos, herb and fossil walks, shared meals, games, drum circles and farm duties from egg collection to shepherding happened in the coulees of Southern Alberta, Canada.

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    Mother of Team Generys and the Wise Guys, beginning 1991

    Meet my four biggest inspirations

    My work is devoted to these four remarkable humans: Sagan, Tallis, Genevieve and Cerys, and to Gaia, to whom we are each inherent.


    Photo from 2007





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    And More

    Too many to list...but...

    Permaculture Guild Calgary, the AB Permaculture Convergence, One Tree Village (Dewinton, AB), Edmonton Ecovillage Hub, Studio M* , Aloha Aina Farm now Strawflower Homestead (Salt Spring Island), Featherstone Farm (Creston, BC), Cherry Hill EcoVillage (AB), Our Calgary Intentional Community (since evolved into the Herding Cats Collective), we brought Diana Leafe Christian to town, New Paradigm Hempery, Alchemy of Womxn (east of Edmonton, 2017 and 2018, pictured), The YYC Earthship Symposium, Project SaLV'age, FOODx, Calgary on Purpose, TEDx Calgary, XR Calgary Action and Training...oh my goodness I am missing so many.




  • My life and my work is

    empowered by others

    I am part of a global team of experimenters creating Next Culture ~ Archiarchy.

    We use many distinctions, maps, processes and tools, some of which we create as we go, others learned from those who began long before me.

    Of course, the influences began long ago...

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    My Parents

    Rowan and Carol

    My parents left South Africa after learning police where on their trail for teaching Black and Coloured people against the laws of Apartheid. After settling in Canada they regularly took me and my two brothers camping and travelling, providing rich learning experiences. My dad, Rowan, died in 1993. My mum, Carol returned to South Africa for a year to empower BIPOC of South African, and stayed for 21. She is now back in Canada.

    Voracious Reading

    From babyhood I devoured books

    From the age of 5-19, I lived a 5 minute walk from a library and made many a trip across the field with bags of books.

    Today as a light-travelling nomad I am ever fitting in a small stack of books, inevitably from the Possibilitator Library, a non-centralized genius book sharing gameworld.

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    Atypical Education, Religion and Theatre

    Montessori, Private Catholic School for an Anglican kid, Parents on Staff, Theatre

    Some of my earliest memories are of Christ Church, Cranbrook and my Montessori preschool and kindergarten years. In grade 8 I went to public school, and had my only two years in a school without a parent on staff. Most of my highschool years were given to dance and drama, I performed in 7 plays in 4 years, including two awarded theatre festival performances.

    Global Adventure

    Now that's an education

    My first international trip occurred when I was one year old. Another at age 5, then a six month "World Trip" at 12, many steps of which I retraced as an 18 year old on another 6 month adventure in 1988. In May of 2021, I officially became nomadic.

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    Movement Modalities

    Embodied awareness

    Highland, Ballet, Jazz, Gymnastics, Track and Field, Soccer, Volleyball and Theatrical Dance

    Improvised Movement

    Hatha Yoga and Mi Lee

    Ecstatic Dance, Contact Improv and 5 Rhythms

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    Becoming and Being a Mother

    I am the mother of four homeborn children; who have three fathers between them

    The ecstasy and pain of my experiences of Motherhood inform my work with Mothers and Others.

    Mother hood is the most rigorous education on the Planet.

    Permaculture, Simplicity, Upcycling, and Unplugging from Capitalist Empire

    I began studying permaculture in 1991

    A substantial set of skills grew out of necessity and imagination.

    The Self Realization Meditation Healing Center

    Raja Kriya Yoga, training in Pure Meditation, Natural Spiritual Healing, Progressive Counselling and the running of a SPiritual Centre

    This work at the BC Center and the Mother Centre in England comprised a remarkable chapter of my life between 1995-2006

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    Trauma Recovery Work and Emotional Processing

    Human emotions are not a design flaw

    My connection with fellow B-School Alumni (2011), Irene Lyons, introduced me to the work of Gabor Mate, Bessel Van Der Kolk, Stephen Levine.


    This contributed greatly to my foundation for the Conscious Feelings Work of Possibility Managment to come.

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    Understanding and Celebrating Men, Women and Partnership

    I am a graduate of Alison's core curriculum, the experience of which changed my life as a woman, and made me an even bigger fan of Men.


    Read Alison's article about ending the longest-running war in history.

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    ArcaTribe and ArcaLoves

    Pop up villages, Passion Shows and Vibe Pod

    The magnificent peers of ArcaTribe provided me five years of experience in collaboratively co-creating pop-up villages and creative retreats.

    Presence in Practice​

    Depth Dyad Work

    With Dolphin and Susan Kasper of Evolve Now, and with Anjeli Hill.

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    Non Violent Communication

    "I feel ____, because..."

    Nonviolent communication evolved from concepts used in person-centered therapy, and was developed by clinical psychologist Marshall Rosenberg beginning in the 1960s. Katrina Vaillancourt, the creator of the Love Smart Cards, made NVC accessible to me along with Lynda Switzer with whom I experimented to create workshops and peer to peer learning groups.

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    B-Loops, the Benome

    Philip's space holding made immense healing possible, preparing me for big next steps.

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    Possibility Management

    Possibility Management is highly effective and totally reproducible.

    In the spring of 2020, I encountered Possibility Management, which was originated by Clinton Callahan in 1975, and has been empowered by Anne-Chloe Destremau since 201?. Studying and using PM has been like putting my personal evolution on steroids (I don't love that analogy, but there it is).